Monday, October 29, 2012

Management


So, it’s been a crazy couple of weeks!  We didn’t have any classes last week because we were given the week to visit any college campus of our choice.  Of course, my friends Jamie, Emily, and I took this as an opportunity to visit as many of our friends as possible.  We started off by making the five-hour drive to Stillwater, Oklahoma to visit Oklahoma State University (but mostly our friend, mentor, and favorite camp counselor, Laurel Wilson).  We had a great time not just road-tripping, touring campus, experiencing homecoming, and mostly catching up and talking about life.  We left Friday morning to head back to Branson.  We stayed the night back in our dorms, and left bright and early the next day for Fayetteville to visit the University of Arkansas (home to many of our Kanakuk friends).  I ended up loving the town of Fayetteville, along with the school itself.  Overall, last week was super fun, but also super busy/exhausting. 

            This week started out with another Mystery Monday.  We played a game called “Bigger or Better”.  We were each given a small red paperclip, and given instructions to go out into the community to make trades for things that are bigger and better than the item we have.   My group took the red paperclip to an office building and traded it for a t-shirt; we traded the t-shirt for a wooden puzzle, the puzzle for a pizza stone, and the pizza stone for a super old-school calculator, and the calculator for one of those big bouncy balls with a handle.  We traded the ball for a campfire grill.  At our last stop, we offered our grill up for a trade, and the woman, obviously a hoarder, told us we could take anything out of her garage, AND keep our grill.  We grabbed a giant drink fountain, and as we walked back towards our car, we walked past a small pen containing two dogs; a puppy and its mom.  The owner explained to us that they had been looking for a suitable home for the dogs, and since we had explained all about Kanakuk Link Year, she told us that we could take the puppy home with us.  I, being a dog LOVER, was ready to pick up the dog and take it home to live with me in my dorm. Thankfully, my sweet family group was there to talk me out of it before I got in trouble.  J We took our grill and our fountain back to campus to see how everyone else had done.  Although we didn’t win, we had a great time with this fun game.  

            We were privileged to hear from two of our very own this week- Adam Donyes, and Adam Martin.  Donyes started out Tuesday morning by talking about time management.  He read the parable of the talents from Luke chapter 19, and discussed how it is important to use the gifts that God has blessed us with, whether they are big or small.  He started snapping.  Every two seconds, someone, somewhere dies… where’s the urgency? At any time, any breath we take could be our last.  We may not know it’s coming, but our lives could end at anytime.  What are we doing with our time that will leave an eternal impact on our lives? We waste so much time on things like twitter, Facebook, or even unfruitful relationships with friends.  We agree to do so many things we don’t have time for just because we can’t say ‘no’ to people.  We can’t prioritize our schedules to get important things done.  We waste time waiting for God to come to us.  The bible considers people who poorly manage their time to be fools.  We make time for the things that are important to us.  Think about it.  In the past week, you have probably made plenty time to talk to your friends, get things done for work or school, and maybe even be a part of a team or club or group of some kind.   How much time have you made for God?  What does that show you about the priorities in your life?  What is important to you? Adam Donyes shared an illustration of this with us. 

A man once approached a spiritual guru of sorts, and asked him to teach him how to be successful.  “Meet me on the beach tomorrow morning at 6:00, and I will teach you the key to success.” the Guru responded.  The next day, the man came dressed in business attire, ready to learn the key to success.  “Walk out into the water.” The guru instructed.  As the man waded into the water, the guru encouraged him to go out deeper and deeper into the ocean.  The guru went with him.  Once they got up to their cores in the water, the guru took the man, and held him underneath the water.  He held him there for a while as he struggled to get up, to get air, to breathe.  Finally, the guru brought the man up.  As he gasped for air, he said to the man, “as soon as you learn to want Christ as bad as you want to breathe, things will begin to change.”

We will make time for the things that are important to us.  How badly do you want to breathe?  That breath may be your last.  How badly do you want Christ? C.S. Lewis once said, “The future is something which everyone reaches at a rate of 60 minutes an hour, whatever he does, whoever he is.”  What are we doing to manage our time?  How are we working to promote our future, both on Earth and in Eternity?

On Tuesday, Adam Martin shared with us about the importance of managing money.  He started out by stating that our spending habits, as students, should NOT be like that of our parents.  We are STUDENTS.  Most of us do not support ourselves; we receive enough money to get by from our parents.  We are financially dependent on someone else, and we should not take that for granted.   If, growing up, we ate out at restaurants three times a week; we should not expect to do the same thing now that we are on our own.  We feel as though we are entitled to these things, because that’s what we grew up around.  We need to learn to be smart with our blessings, especially our finances.  He taught us about the different types of accounts you can hold, types of investments, and ways to stay out of debt.  He taught us how to use an online tool, called Mint.com.  It is a website designed to help manage all different accounts and bills in one place.  We learned a lot of very applicable information about banking, and spending money wisely. 

Thursday morning, Donyes was up again.  This time he talked about managing ourselves.  He told us that Discipline is the key to managing self.  Three different types of discipline will be important as we learn to manage ourselves, inward, outward, and corporate. 

Inward discipline is a combination of meditation, prayer, fasting and studying.  Meditation is the act of thinking, praying and studying scripture in a way that allows the Lord to speak to you through it.  Nowhere in the bible does it say to memorize scripture, but rather to meditate on it.  John Piper, a famous Christian author, once said “How anyone could walk through this devil ruled world without a sword in their hand is beyond me.”  Scripture is our defense.  We meditate on it so that when we do face trials, we can combat them with the truth that we know through God’s word.  Prayer is our spiritual communication with God.  It allows us to have a constant, personal relationship with our Creator and Savior.  People often view God as being far off in the distance, and call on him only when we need him.  The reality is that we are called to pray continually, without ceasing.  God created us, and seeks a personal relationship with every one of us.  1 Thessalonians 5:16-19 says, “Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. Do not quench the spirit.”  Do not QUENCH the spirit.  The Holy Spirit is inside of us.  It is aching to shine through our lives, to consume our hearts, to be on the throne of our lives.  We cannot quench it by limiting its power to the times when WE think WE need it.  Fasting is an act of removing idols from our lives.  Although this was biblically limited to food, historically, it was their most precious thing, their only really unnecessary possession.  Today, we have computers, iPods, iPhones, television, weekly shopping sprees, sports teams, clubs, and all kinds of other things that we use or do on a regular basis that are completely unnecessary.  Fasting nowadays could be from Internet, social medias, television; anything that we put as an idol before God. Studying is important because it is impossible for us to renew our minds without this discipline.  Romans 12:1-2 says “Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship.  Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”  Adam told us that God loves us as we are, but he loves us too much to let us stay this way. 
            Outward disciplines include simplicity, solitude, submission, and service.  Simplicity is important especially when it comes to our egos.  We, as sinful and egotistical creatures often think that we are good enough on our own, that we don’t need to listen to God’s word, or ask him for forgiveness. THAT is why we are called to have a child-like faith.  Children do not have an ego.  Solitude is important to allow ourselves to hear God.  The enemy HATES solitude.  He knows that that is our time to hear from God, and it makes him MAD.  He will do anything to take that time away from us.  Submission to God promotes humility.  It decreases the pride in our lives by admitting that we are fully submitted to God.  Pride is the root of all sin.  Yes, Eve’s disobedience to God in the garden caused the fall of mankind, but if it hadn’t been for Lucifer’s pride in thinking that he was better than God as an angel, Eve would never have even been tempted.  Service is the act of serving God through serving others.  It keeps our heart in check, and shows us how to be more Christ-Like. 
            Corporate discipline includes confession, worship, guidance, and celebration.  Confession will help to prevent future sins.  When even the smallest of sins are confessed, they can prevent greater sins from growing.  Sin will spread and grow at uncontrollable rates if it goes un-confessed.  Worship is the act of professing our love for God, and showing reverence for his power.  Guidance from those who have gone before us is necessary to help us to grow, and help prevent us from making bad decisions.  Seeking wise counsel in difficult situations will help us to grow.  Finally, when we remind ourselves of the Gospel daily, and remember exactly what Jesus went through for us as he died on the cross, we find a reason to celebrate daily.
            This week was a great week of growth through learning about how to manage these different aspects of my life.  I am sure that this information will be relevant to me for the rest of my life. 

 “Pray also for me, that whenever I speak, words may be given me so that I will fearlessly make known the mystery of the gospel, for which I am an ambassador in chains. Pray that I may declare it fearlessly, as I should.” – Ephesians 6:19-20

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